There are several ways to find and communicate with others in a similar situation here.
1 - Click on Forums, then click on Cancer Types, then click on Gynecologic. All the threads of that type will appear. My suggestion is to start a new post there so it is seen by any members that post and look there.
2 - Click on Members, then click on Search Members. Under Search options, click on Cancer Information - Cancer Type and choose Vulvar. Any members that have listed this cancer will appear.
Hopefully they will reach out to you and your post. To tag a member, type in the @sign and immediately start typing their name. The name or a list of names will appear. Click on the one you want to tag and you know it worked when it turns blue on your screen.
Hope this helps you.