Posted by Lacey_adminCCS on May 2, 2019 11:23 am
Pain can be a common side effect of cancer and its treatments, but having cancer doesn’t mean you have to live with pain. Managing pain is part of your overall treatment plan. Talking about your pain helps your healthcare team understand it and figure out how to control it.
Did you or your loved one experience pain? What are your tips for managing pain?
Posted by princessmaura on May 2, 2019 11:52 am
pain is a difficult subject to talk about because it can be so related to having cancer...and sometimes pain medication does not solve the problem for everybody...
Posted by Quinn on May 2, 2019 12:43 pm
About pain, as Princess Maura said, everyone responds to pain differently, their tolerance for pain, and what pain meds can work for each of us & for how long? I am very curious & would like to hear others describe how did they manage their pain?
Posted by DaniC on May 2, 2019 1:07 pm
Posted by prairiemom on May 2, 2019 1:16 pm
Since cancer, I have a specific area of pain under my right arm, at the end of my mastectomy scar on that side. It is super tender and painful to the touch, even 3 1/2 years out, but luckily it only hurts when i actually knock that area, so it's not like a constant pain. I had the odd zaps every now and again across my chest from nerve pain, but gabapentin helped with that. Pain-wise , I've been pretty lucky compared to others, I think. I have more fatigue type issues, and chemo brain than lots of physical pain.
Posted by LPPK on May 2, 2019 4:22 pm
I started and continue walking daily, do stretches and yoga regularly, and do deep breathing when I need to calm down and relax. I have become very good at reading my body’s aches and pains and try to nip them in the bud. It is not uncommon for my family to find me relaxing my back while flat on the floor in the TV room or doing cat/cow stretches. Only rarely do I need any medication but I have learned at what point I need to take something to break the pain cycle.
During my cancer journey I found that my pain relief skill set that I had acquired during my back problem helped me during and after cancer surgery and recovery. After my lumpectomy surgery I took the prescribed meds for one day (they were too strong for me) and then Tylenol for another day and then stopped. Deep breathing and focusing on small tasks helped to take my mind off my pain/discomfort were very helpful. I found working through the exercises recommended after breast cancer surgery I was able to work out the kinks and get my muscles working normally again. Rubbing and massaging cream on my breast and scars while going through radiation treatment helped to heal the scars and make the pulling and pain due to arm stretching lessen.
My pain relief skill set includes: constantly listening to my body, having a regime of exercises/stetches that help different parts of my body, knowing what meds help me to break the pain cycle, and if I can’t solve the pain then go to the doctor.
Posted by Jlo on May 2, 2019 5:38 pm
i had a lot of pain after each round of chemo from my hysterectomy surgery as I started chemo 4 weeks later. I did find that meditation and visualization really helped to relax me and took away the pain for awhile. The nurse at the oncologist's office thought I was strange and encouraged me to take Tylenol 3. I didn't fill my prescription.
i did find a good natural pain reliever on line (Walmart, Amazon) but it is expensive called Curaphen, by EuroMedica. It was recommended to me by a certified health professional, and I still use it today for the odd headache. I try to move and stretch and go for a walk every day. I couldn't even put my shoes on after surgery, but I initially walked around the yard, then down the street and kept going. After each round I had to wait a few days, but then I started walking again. Just before the year was up I walked 5K. I was thrilled to do it. Never give up. Keep going. I take each day as it comes and enjoy each day. The best to you all.
jlo ( Joan)
Posted by Elsie13 on May 2, 2019 6:07 pm
At home, I slept on the living room sofa for about 3 weeks. So I could use the back of the sofa, my arm hooked over the back of the sofa to sit up. Oh, yes, I had a Tylenol prescription, but I didn't want to use it too much. The other technique for sitting up, it worked for me if I rolled onto my left side and used my right forearm to get up. It hurt, but not so much as when in the hospital bed.
After each chemo session, for a couple of days, I had that aching bone feeling, so I used my Tylenol prescription for those days.
Posted by SpeedyStill on May 2, 2019 8:26 pm
With my non-Hodgkin’s Lymphoma it's been so long since my treatments ( 9 years ) that I can't remember most of it. This should be encouraging for those people diagnosed with the same.
I however do remember the pain during and after the bone marrow biopsy from my rump bone. And I remember the shots of Neulasta given to me after each chemotherapy treatment which caused a lot of bone pain.
One positive thing that comes out of pain and that is empathy. I think this is one reason that this community is so good and helpful
How many people have said to you yes I have pain like that too. I feel like saying oh I didn't know you had cancer too. In some strange way to normalize the pain they are trying to make you feel better.
Posted by MaryAnnR on May 2, 2019 10:44 pm
Posted by WBCumm on May 3, 2019 12:43 am
On the sixth morning of treatment I literally staggered into the radiation clinic, my eyes all glassy, and I cried out to the technicians that I couldn't go on like this. I was miserable. I was on the toilet many hours each night (don't even ask about THAT) and I could barely get a couple of hours sleep. I had no strength, no energy, I felt like a Raggedy-Andy doll that had been run over by a truck.
From that day onwards, for the next 5 weeks, I had a standing appointment at the Oncology Nursing station immediately after treatment. God bless Oncology Nurses. They cleaned me up, they lifted my spirits and they called in an Emergency doctor who prescribed various medicines, including opiates (which worked only marginally). I was surprised that the pain treatment was almost hit-and-miss, mostly miss. Nature of the beast?
I got the most relief simply soaking in a lukewarm tub of water at home.
In any case, I survived.
Posted by princessmaura on May 3, 2019 1:27 am
LPPK, you have some excellent ideas on pain management such as listening to your body...I believe that if I had rested more and stayed more hydrated, my pain would not have been so intense (sister was visiting so things were hectic)...
Posted by MrFido on May 3, 2019 12:43 pm
The fact that chronic pain becomes manageable, would suggest that some short term pain or hightened pain can also be addressed.
There's some good news / bad news associated with my 'prescription', but I know that relief is worth pursuing - so you'll be out of pocket and
you'll need to do some footwork. Therefore, there are likely many who would throw my suggestion(s) aside. So be it .....
There is an 'off label' drug used for chronic pain management that has changed my life for the better. I went to my GP to get a prescription that was
pointed out to me by my naturopathic doctor.
It is called LOW DOSE Naltrexone. I take 3 @ 1.5 mg. daily (at dinner time), but anytime is fine because there are NO known side effects.
Naltrexone is typically used for addicts that are withdrawing from narcotics or alcohol (at a much higher dose).
You will need a compounding pharmacy to make it for you, seeing as it is being 'custom' made for the 'off label' usage.
It is fully legal and relatively / affordably priced (about $0.50 each in quantities over 100).
I encourage anyone to Google it - you'll be surprised.
You will also find some significant relief from 'body and 'nerve' pains.
I use it for severe arthritic pain - it has changed my life for the better.
Last, but not least, consult a doctor about medical cannabis. There is enough written about this topic, that I need not expand further.
Those that object to 'taking drugs', should ask themselves about the drugs and side effects they are already experiencing.
We are BORN with an internal 'endo-cannabanoid system' that has genetic READY MADE receptors that the plant can provide to us.
Cannabis is one of our BASIC natural herbal remedies to help balance us out.
In fact, MOST living organisms have an endo-cannabanoid system as well.
Think of your pets, fish, birds, reptiles - just about any living thing.
You think I'm exaggerating ?
You would be wrong .....
Google it - do some research !
After all, it is pain management that you seek ?
Posted by ACH2015 on May 3, 2019 1:03 pm
1) Find out the root cause of the pain. Is it nerve, referred, swelling, acute, chronic, bone, phantom - the list is endless. Many of us suffer from more than one type of pain. That can mean several types of medication to address the totality of our pain. Understanding the differences, triggers and specific medications, exercises, diet etc.. is critical. Pain specialists in hospitals along with your oncologist, surgeon, GP, etc... can work in concert to assess and address our different pains, their origins and the causes.
2) Keep on top of it and address it at its lowest level. Taking any type of medication when your pain is at a 10 out of 10, is too late. It leads to unnecessary increases in medication and the possibility of reaching tolerance levels that render that medication redundant and useless.
3) Keep on top of doses, and reduce, increase or switch up as required. My tumor and nerve pain was always an 11 out of 10. That began to change for the better after surgery #2. Decreases in opioids was almost instant, and nerve pain meds decreased shortly afterwards.
4) Don't be afraid to resume a medication you may have stopped - as required. Like so much in other facets of cancer treatments - trial and error as well as "what works for you" can take time, investigation and research.
5) Keep your medical team in the loop, and keep track of your pain and the medications used or in use, in journals or daily check lists for reference.
Its your pain, and these are my suggestions to help you gain and maintain control.
ACH2015 - Andy.
Posted by luvcurling on May 3, 2019 2:35 pm
My experience with pain is that is it can become debilitating, exhausting and mentally draining. My pain started with surgery, then came multiple complications, and now I'm experiencing pain from the treatments.
Each of us needs to find out how best to deal with, handle our pain. Yes, find the root cause - takes notes of when it happens, learn what's normal for you. Describe it as best you can so when you discuss it with your team so they can better help us. Remember, they can't read our minds - I learned this the hard way. We need to speak up and do out best to explain what is happening to us. Unfortunately, what works for one person does not necessarily work for someone else, so it is quite a bit of trial and error. Be open to new methods as suggested by your team.
Non-medicinal options that have had varying levels of assistance for me include Tapping, meditation, mindfulness, gentle walking, puppy love, distractions (crafts, tv, audiobooks, puzzles), visits from friends to talk about non-cancer things and finally to laugh. I love to laugh!
Medicinal options include Tylenol, tramadol (lots of nausea with this though), codeine and yes laxatives to counter the effects of some of these. I did find Advil (Ibuprofen) to work as an anti-inflammatory, but have been asked to not take this so my platelets don't drop too low.
My friend reminds me to keep CBD oil as an option - she found it very distressing this week when my pain hit an all time high as a result of the Docetaxel combined with the Neupagen (filgrastim) injections that I need to give myself after each chemo. The only thing that helped was laying as still as possible and taking the codeine every 4 hours as directed by my NP. As soon as possible I was up moving gently and moving all my "hurting" joints, bones and muscles.
I think that's it for me. Good luck everyone. There are lots of great suggestions that have been posted and likely to be posted yet.
luv curling - Colleen
Posted by Essjay on May 3, 2019 4:40 pm
I’ve lived with pain all my life - I have joint hypermobility and dislocate joints easily, everything from my neck to my toes, usually at the most inconvenient time, or in the most ridiculous circumstances. My tolerance of pain is high. The medical fraternity consider the pain of dislocating a knee to be worse than child birth, all I know is that it is painful enough for me to not be in control and I don’t want to be touched anywhere. I have always found that medical staff have been very attentive to my pain needs for physical pain - probably because they can see the results of the injury, otherwise they just want to stop my groaning!
Last year I had a kidney stone - on a scale of 1-10 the pain was 12! In dealing with that pain I discovered my allergy to codeine. I wouldn’t wish a kidney stone on my worst enemy...
Through my cancer journey I have been lucky on the pain front I think. I had nerve pain for 2 months after my surgery which painkillers didn’t touch, and which drove me crazy, but knowing what it was and acknowledging to myself in a mindful way was half the battle to getting my head round it. It exhausted me, and distraction was my main coping mechanism. I have always found exercise helps too - endorphins are our body’s natural painkillers so anything that gets them flowing helps significantly.
On Taxol, I had terrible joint pain. Not like when I’ve dislocated a joint and it’s a single joint bothering me. It was everywhere. I didn’t cope at all well the first time it happened, and Advil and T2s were just not sufficient. However, I made a decision not to have narcotics. I wanted to be able to drive and maintain my independence, and I’m really nervous about addiction having a sister who has recently come off Oxys after 4 years on them for a back injury. I found my docs really not that helpful or understanding - they didn’t get how painful it was or the impacts of the pain on me. I turned to CBD oil and got some help with mindful meditation from the counsellor at the cancer clinic. These got me through the rest of my chemo, along with distraction, and a little exercise when I was up to it.
Next is radiation - and I anticipate some burning, and some pain...
Posted by Luckysgirl on May 8, 2019 12:43 am
The last 2.5 months has been on CBD and THC, and totally off all pain meds
He started off on 10 mg of CBD for 1 week, and less than 0.1 ml of THC, with THC you take small doses and move up as you tolerate it.
He is now up to 5 mg of THC and 20-30 mg of CBD.
Takes THC at night around 830 pm, or when i know he isn't operating or driving etc.
He sleeps Thur the night, and has been walking and able to enjoy the day
He is tired, but that is from the chemo
Posted by Lacey_adminCCS on May 16, 2019 3:11 pm
Talk about your feelings-Pain can affect your thoughts and feelings, as well as your body. It can cause many different emotions. Many emotions, such as anger, fear and worry, can also make pain worse. Talking about how you are feeling may help you manage pain.
Track your pain- The more detail you can give your healthcare team about your pain, the better able they will be to help you. It might be helpful to create a pain journal or diary to keep track of your pain over time. A pain journal can help your healthcare team assess your pain and see how well pain medicines are working.
Try relaxation techniques- Relaxation can reduce muscle tension, which can relieve pain or keep it from getting worse. Relaxation can also give you more energy, reduce fatigue, anxiety and stress and help with falling asleep. Relaxation often improves with practice.
Focus on something you enjoy- Distraction is another way to help you draw attention away from pain by focusing on something fun or relaxing. Examples of distraction include reading a book, doing puzzles, playing a board game, watching a movie, listening to music or doing a hobby.
Keep in touch with family and friends- Pain can make you want to keep to yourself and avoid friends and family. But keeping in touch with friends and family is good for you and can make you feel better. Try short visits or even visits on the phone.
Ask for help-Living with pain is very tiring. Try to focus your energy on the things that are most important for you to do and ask for help with other tasks
Try to be active when you can- Being active can take your mind off pain. Physical activity can block pain signals to the brain. It can also relieve pain by stretching stiff or tense muscles and joints. Simple everyday activities like walking, gardening and dancing can help relieve pain.
We have a great booklet: Pain Relief: A guide for people with cancer.