I wanted to start a discussion to see if perhaps there is anyone in a similar situation.. I just turned 20 this year, my father has been battling colon cancer for about a year now. In April he was given 6 months to live. I am in university and am rarely home. The current situation in the world has allowed me to be home unexpectedly. I moved home at the end of August and since I've been home he has dramatically deteriorated to the point that I don't believe he has many more days ahead of him. I'm an only child and it really breaks my heart to see this happen; my parents are my best friends. My mother is also at home with me and it is obviously very devastating for her as well because she says he was doing fine before I came home. He barely eats, sleeps or does much of anything besides sitting in his chair in the living room. To make matters worse, both my parents are disabled and are very dependent on me and each other. My father is miserable and no matter how we try to help he is bitter to no end. Our house has been very toxic lately and I really can't stand it anymore. It feels as though we are waiting for some deadline to happen. I would really like to hear if anyone has any similar sort of experiences or how you'd approach a situation like this.
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