My mom was diagnosed with liver cancer on December 3rd. Then on the 13th, the diagnosis was extended (or whatever the word is) to include her kidneys, lungs, breasts, thyroid, and lymph nodes and was renamed adenocarcinoma. It's a cancer of the epithelial tissue of the organs. She's not lucid anymore. She had a few good days last weekend but now she's just confused and cant hold a conversation. She's in a lot of pain so they're giving her dilaudid which is why she's all unfocused. Today, the doctor on call told her best friend that the cancer is in her bowels and that she has about a month to live. We have the first appointment with the oncologist on Wednesday in Abbotsford. I guess then we'll find out if there is any treatment. Mom was talking about fighting her diagnosis with everything possible. Im so overwhelmed and scared and sad. Im the eldest kid and the PoA for my mom. I just want my mom to not be in pain and maybe have a bit of happiness before she goes. Id like her to look at me with clear eyes again and not have the tremor in her hands. Id like her to be able to go to the toilet on her own. And I dont think those things are going to happen now.